Are You Living the Life of
a Whole Person?
are the people you most admire? Are they somehow more
authentic, complete, whole than you? What makes this difference?
Are some people really living the whole life? Are they
experiencing and being more ALIVE – full of energy, joy, peace,
contentment, wisdom – living true to themselves – living a
life that can be described as a Life of “Abundance”……
This article is going to explore the
characteristics of this “whole person” - the ones who live
life fully alive experiencing abundance.
This article will only scratch the surface, but hopefully
it will tickle your curiosity and stir a passion in you to “Go
When you step back and ask what do these individuals have in common,
some of the characteristics that come to mind for me are:
- They know their answers to Key Questions which
Guide their Lives –
In other words, they truly know and accept themselves!
- They have a value system that follows age-old Higher
Principles of Life
- They take care of themselves – “Whole self” –
Spiritually, Mentally, Emotionally, Physically, Socially
- They live consistently within this value system – Integrity
and Congruence – Being TRUE!
- What you see is what you get – no Masks or Duplicity
– Being REAL!
- They have a solid confidence, internal; that is also humble
– Surrendered and Aware!
- They take risks – live with the courage to be vulnerable
and to challenge themselves to Grow/Change – Transform!
They positively affect others with their presence –
vitality, being transparent,
many important questions for each of us to explore to discover our
true selves. The
real issue here is our willingness to ask ourselves these questions!
powerful questions seem to scare some of us to the point we would
rather DO just about anything to avoid facing ourselves and that is
what often happens – we hide in the “doing” or “busyness”
of life to avoid getting to know ourselves.
To quote Dick Leider,
the author of The Power of Purpose, “Life begins with questions
and nothing shapes our lives as much as the questions we ask – or
refuse to ask – throughout our lives.” Granted some
personalities are at the opposite end; these individuals actually
thrive on seeking the answers to these big questions of life - and
may get so lost in finding themselves that they never fulfill what
is their discovered PURPOSE! So
just to spark some fire in you OR possibly strike the cord that
reveals you’re running from yourself and your answers – here are
a list of key questions for you to consider.
Do you have your answers?
1. Key Questions which Guide their Lives:
Why am I doing what I am doing?
It is my passion – my life purpose!
Where is there meaning in my life?
I satisfied & fulfilled? What
in my life?
is my reason for being?
is my life-purpose?
is my life’s
What is really important to me?
What do I value? What
makes my heart sing?
Who am I? What
are my values? What
are my unique strengths, giftings and talents?
integrate my spirituality
into my every day life? How
“This above all: to thine own self be true“
-- William Shakespeare
So what is a " value system" that
follows age-old higher principles of life?
Here I must highly recommend a wonderful little book so
packed with wisdom around the key principles governing life
titled, “If Life is a Game, These are the Rules”, by Cherie
Carter-Scott, Ph.D. This
book expresses in such a simple way, profound truths that everyone,
young and old, would benefit from reading this little book and
sharing it with others. Basically,
your value system is what guides your everyday choices and
behaviors, but often we are in an internal conflict - we are not
living consistently with what we want to be our values.
Below is a VERY small list of thought-provoking examples of
important higher principles of life for you to begin to ponder
whether they are part of your everyday value system and are the
principles that govern your choices and actions:
2. Higher Principles of Life (a few of my
Giving – It is more blessed to give than to receive
– “Pay It Forward”
Loving – Treat others the way you want to be treated
– Love your neighbor as yourself
Harvesting - We reap what we sow – “like attracts
like” – like produces after its own kind
Reflection – Our Life is as a Mirror
- As a man thinketh in his heart; so is he
– We are at the ‘cause’ of the ‘effect’ –
Out of the heart flow the issues of life – “We don’t
see things as they are; we see things as we are” Anais Nin
Resilience – Keep HOPE alive – tenacity to
endure to the end – never give up on their vision
Presence – Living in the moment, present, authentic,
Responsibility, Accountability, Vision, Wisdom,
Contribute, Celebrate, Gratitude ETC. ETC. ETC.
And in the end, it's not the years in your life that count.
It's the life in your years.
-- Abraham Lincoln
3. Wheel of Life – Balance in ALL Areas of
Life That Have Importance/Significance
(Foundational to your Value System)
Begin the Journey to Living FULLY ALIVE – When you ask “How can
I “Go for IT” ? ….
Imagine a relationship that is focused on
possibilities, wants, desires, potential – the Abundant Life that
is truly within reach. Imagine
a relationship that moves you toward fulfilling that potential.
Imagine a relationship that is surrounded around your agenda and
what you want in your life or business.
Imagine a place were you can have intentional and
transformational conversations with an advocate for excellence and
is the relationship found within Life Purpose Coaching!
confidently in the direction of your dreams.
Living the life you’ve imagined”
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You'll feel in control of your destiny, not
drifting along aimlessly!
You'll feel supported and comforted knowing
others have gone through similar experiences and made it!
You'll gain self-awareness like you've never
had before. Self-awareness is the key to change!
Your self-confidence will increase because
you'll be doing things you never had the courage to do before!
Your world will expand because you'll be
'out-there' really living and experiencing it!
You'll finally discover and start living all
of your passions!
You'll feel inspired and then you'll be the
inspiration of so many because you'll have made changes that so few
You'll have increased energy, vitality and
happiness in your life!
Your prosperity and fulfillment will soar!
Your relationships will become better and
You'll feel relief in finally having the
clarity on what is not working and finally know how to move forward!
You'll have access to new tools to deal with
problems, find real, lasting solutions and you'll be able to use
them again and again!
You'll be able to see clearly a new path to
what you truly want and gain the ability to actually have it!
You'll be able
to confidently identify and resolve your problems!